Why Most Personal
Development Gurus Suck!
And the Secret To Instant Change
With “Unconscious State Installations” So
You Can Achieve Your God Given Destiny!
I hate most self help and personal development gurus.
First, they are usually “theorists”. They don’t practice what they preach. They give you good ideas, but never action plans. They don’t show you the easy way to get instant results.
Actually, they are just opportunists who want to make money off you… not people who have your best interest in mind.
John Gray, author of “Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus”, the supposed guru of relationships has never had a successful marriage. In fact, his marriage with Barbara De Angelis ended when she left him for another man. Barbara De Angelis, by the way, is also a famous self help guru who publishes books like “What Women Want Men to Know” and “Chicken Soup For the Couples Soul“.
Dr. Phil, who weighs in at about 245 pounds, gives people advice on how to lose weight! I’m sorry, but dude is only 6’2″. I don’t care how you spin it, he’s overweight. Hmm.
Kim Cattrall of Sex in the City fame wrote a book about how women can have non-stop, blissful orgasms. She divorced her husband shortly after the book was published. Her reason: Her husband just wanted to have sex all the time!
Napoleon Hill, author of Think & Grow Rich (millions of copies sold), lived most of his life destitute and poor, and had to be rescued from poverty at the end of his life by a friend who took pity on him.
These are just a small handful of examples. What’s more instructive is… WHY? Why can’t most people do what they teach? I’ll tell you why…
They Don’t Have Systems,
I’m not into theories.
I’m into “modeling”. Here’s how it works. When I want to master a certain behavior or achieve a certain goal, I simply go to someone who has what I want. Then, I make it a point to observe them. What I want to know is the neurological and chemical processes that trigger their resource states that allow them to achieve great things. <more>